It’s not uncommon to become bored in the bedroom after you’ve been with your partner for any length of time. This doesn’t mean the relationship is going downhill, it just means an extra spark may be needed to recreate the old feelings again. There are some simple ways to introduce fantasies in to the bedroom without making anyone uncomfortable.
Read Some Erotica
If you’ve ever thumbed through the pages of an erotic novel, you know how easy it is to become aroused. This is also a good way to introduce some fantasy in the bedroom. Simply find a book that has short stories, and read each other a story. You may find the spark is there and you’re hot and heavy before the story even ends. Swingers sites are great places to read Erotica, many have lots of Swingers Stories, so if you don’t have access to a book they can be ideal to get you in the mood.
Simple Role Playing
Try getting a skimpy french maids outfit and treat your boyfriend to a clean house when he gets home. For a guy, grab a tool belt and pretend to be fixing the cable when she comes home. Role playing doesn’t have to be too far out of the norm to create an unforgettable fantasy experience.
Visit An Adult Toy Store
Toys and other accessories can be an inexpensive way to spice up a mundane bedroom. Find an adult movie that looks like you will both enjoy, or find some small toys. For those who are more adventurous, look for some handcuffs or straps. You can go as mild or steamy as you want.
Play a Saucy Game
Come up with a card game that involves removing clothing or performing sex acts. This can be played in the comfort of your own bedroom, and doesn’t have to cost a lot to set up. The anticipation is allowed to build and it will create a much hotter experience.